So excited that summer is right around the corner. Jacquelynn and Madison are playing soccer this summer and Eddie is coaching. How cute! I admit that I am more excited to see my girly girls all dressed up in their uniforms with matching hair accessories them I am about the actual sport of soccer. Today Eddie came home with two big boxes. He is Jacquelynn's coach so we got to see the color of Jacque's team first. PINK!!!! Yay for pink. Now......we need a good team name!
Our home is full of Sugar and Spice and Everything.........Oh who am I kidding! You have been warned!
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Virtuous and Lovely
So I keep changing the title of my blog because I was never really satisfied with it. But I think I might just have it now. Oh, the quote will change ever so often, but I think I am sticking with the title. I am always changing my mind, but I think that is totally normal considering my life and day to day activities. I have 4 girls all under the age of 7. Things change on a daily basis, and I like that. It really keeps me on my toes.
Speaking of having 5 girls, (5 including my step daughter) why is it people are amazed that I have all girls? It seems weird to me. Growing up, I knew a few families who had 5 boys or 4 girls and I never thought twice about it. That was just the what God chose for them. Am I so different then other people that things like 5 girls or being tall doesn't phase me? I must be because it happens ALL the time. No joke. We (the 4 younger girls and I) were in Lowes the other day and 2 ladies casually walked up to me, and said, "I hope that little one (Sutton was hidden under her carrier canopy) is a boy". Why? Why do you hope that? Is there something in it for you if she was a boy? Let me make it clear to all. I LOVE having all girls. My home is full of Hello Kitty, Princesses, ballet clothes, Barbie Dolls, and cute Roxy bikines. I LOVE it. I could not imagine it any other way. Sure I have teenage girls to look forward to in the future, (gulp) but I don't really care right now. God has chosen me to raise his daughters. What a choice calling. I am a very confident woman. I am six foot four and I am proud of who I am and proud of my height. What better person to raise tall confident daughters of God then I? The world needs choice, virtuous girls. Girls raised up in the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Girls who are modest and virtuous and lovely. These kinds of girls are on the verge of extinction these days. I want to be a mother of girls, because I am prepared to do what God has asked me to do as a mother. I know that God has a plan for his righteous daughters to receive that highest blessings of eternity. And I am prepared and accept the responsibility to guide his daughters in that direction. Do I want more girls? YES! I love my little princesses.
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
There is such a thing as too many activities in one day.
Last night I had made a plan to keep my girls busy today. No lying in front of the TV, or playing on the computer. No, we were gonna keep busy. So, this morning I got them ready before 9:30 AM. That is a record for us! At 10 AM we packed up the stroller and headed off to park day with our friends from church. Park day is always fun. It is a chance to meet the people I attend church with in a setting that is a little more relaxed. You know how Sundays are, rush, rush, rush. The girls played and I got to sit and chat. We stayed at the park until about 1:10 PM and the packed up and went to pick up Madison from school. Wednesday is early release day so she was out early. At home the girls were once again restless, so I pulled out a roll of old Christmas wrapping paper and taped it, whites side up to the wall of our garage. Then I gave the girls the box of markers and let them go to town. They got creative and were so excited that I let them actually use the permanent markers. Those are usually off limits. When the excitement of coloring and drawing died down, we moved into the kitchen where I made home made peanut butter dough. This is special dough that the girls can play with and eat if they so choose. But in true Villa girls fashion, there was more dough being thrown onto the floor then there was being played with. So that ended just as quick as it started. By the time I was don cleaning up the mess, Eddie was home. Now my girls are literally wrestling with each other and yelling loud enough for the entire apartment community to hear. All in all, this was a fun day. Busy, but fun!
Tuesday, June 1, 2010
Monday, May 31, 2010
Mom, can I help?

It can sometimes be a dreaded question when I am busy in the kitchen trying to get things done as fast as I can. No time for mistakes or sluggish progression. When I find myself on a roll and in baking mode is when I hear those words, "mom, can I help". I struggle with that question. Of course I want my adorable little girls at my side having a funtastic time with me, but then again, I want it done my way in in my time frame.
Too many times have I just pushed them out of the kitchen and told them to go play in their room or go outside. Pushing them away from me and away from some fantastic memories and most importantly, away from an opportunity to talk and learn more about my rapidly growing girls. The last thing that I want is to miss a moment with them. A moment that could have turned into something wonderful. I am not going to pass up on those moments any more. I want to treasure each and every moment. They are the only reason I have chosen to be a Domestic Engineer.
So today, Memorial day, we spent the morning in the kitchen baking yummy chocolate chip cookies. My little ladies wanted to get their hand ooey and gooey and bake up a storm. So that is what we did. I let them measure and mix, pour and crack, sprinkle and pack their way into cookie heaven. It was not the cleanest bake off, but it was the most fun! The cookies were delicious and the girls have a deeper love for baking with mommy!
Friday, May 28, 2010
Keeping Preschooler's Busy.....it is easier then you might think


Today was one of those days where Sutton kept me busy all morning. Not really allowing me to do much else but tend to her needs. This does not go over well with my 2 preschooler's. When Jacquelynn and Brooklyn are left unattended for any length of time, they tend to lose their little minds and do as many destructive things they can fit into the time they are unattended. A preshcooler is always curious, full of energy, very stubborn (in a good way), and always up for adventure. To quote my 4 year old, "Adventure is out there". While they do tend to get into trouble, they don't need the constant monitoring that they once did while they were toddlers. They have found a little bit of Independence. There are ways that a Domestic Engineer can keep her little preschooler entertained while at home. There a lots of ways. You just have to get a bit creative.
Today was a day I had to engage the two girls in something fun and creative. My girls love getting into the bathroom sinks and playing in the water. So, playing off that joy, I cleared off the kitchen counters, put a beach towel on the floor right under the sink, set the kitchen table bench up for them to stand on and put another towel on the bench. I filled both sides of the sink with warm sudsy water and gave them some plastic cups, spoons, straws, bowls and other fun things I could find and just let them have at it. After all, it is just water. Well, the end result was about an hour of good clean (wet) fun. I only let them go an hour because we had to pick up Madison from school, otherwise the could have gone longer. This was awesome! They had a blast and I was able to ttend to Sutton while watching them have a great time.
Sometimes we let these fun years of our kids lives pass us by with out stopping to enjoy the things that make preschoolers unique. I am choosing to stop each and every day to have a little fun with my crazy, lovable preschoolers.
If I had my child to raise over again

If I had my child to raise over again,
I'd fingerpaint more and point fingers less.
I'd do less correcting and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.
I would care to know less and know to care more.
I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.
I'd run through more fields and gaze at more stars.
I'd do more hugging and less tugging.
I would be firm less often and affirm much more.
I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.
I'd teach less about love of power, and more about the power of love.
-Diane Loomans-
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)




